Life after 50 is not a decline, it’s a bloom. It’s a season that invites you to rediscover yourself in new and beautiful ways.
For me, this chapter feels different. With my daughters grown and new grandchildren in the picture, I’m learning to appreciate the quiet moments and the freedom to focus on what makes me feel most like myself. The pace may have slowed, but the sense of purpose has only deepened. I’m realizing that this isn’t about fading into the background, but about stepping into a version of myself that feels more confident, expressive, and fulfilled.
So often we’re told to “dress our age” as we grow older, but what if we did the opposite? What if we celebrated this time by embracing colour, taking risks, and finding joy in the little things that make us unique? Midlife isn’t a limit; it’s an opening. A chance to express who we’ve become and who we’re still becoming.
Here are a few reflections that have helped me rediscover my style and sense of self during this chapter of life.
Discover what makes you tick.
When you put on a jacket that feels like it's fitting a mould and feels more like something you should have, rather than something that makes you feel good, you're probably onto something (and I'll let you in on a secret: it will probably never do the trick for you). Take the time to identify the things that spark joy and make you feel most like yourself. Once you do, getting dressed becomes something to look forward to again. Each outfit becomes a small act of self-expression, a reflection of how you feel that day. If you're not sure where to start, you can take our style personality quiz to help you identify the type of pieces to make you feel like yourself.
Your lifestyle has changed; has your closet?
Life looks different than it did ten years ago, and your closet should, too. Maybe your days are less about boardrooms and more about travel, or time with family. Work with your stylist to reassess your lifestyle and ensure your wardrobe reflects today’s version of you. Clothes should serve your life, not the other way around.
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Let accessories help tell your story.
People often think accessories are an afterthought, but I see them as the punctuation marks of personal style. They’re the pieces that make an outfit yours: a bold scarf picked up on a trip, a pair of shoes that never fail to lift your mood, or a necklace that holds a memory. These touches are what keep style playful and evolving, no matter your age.
Discover my ACCESSORIES EDIT for this season.
I feel free at this age as my time is mine again… my kids are grown and out of the house. I want to age gracefully, so I am putting more focus on how I feel, which for me includes how I look and present myself to the world.
It's not about "dressing for or looking your age". If I don’t have style now, I don't know if I'll have it again.
Having style isn’t optional; it’s essential maintenance for you, and you'll thank yourself for it.
xo, Lisa