While just a week has passed since we talked about breaking the rules (missed it? catch up here), it’s clear we hit a nerve—in the best way.

I’ve had so many thoughtful conversations with many of you since, and it got me thinking—not just about the rules we enjoy breaking, but the ones we still tiptoe around. The ones that sit just outside our comfort zone. You know the feeling: that quiet hesitation, the inner voice that says “not for me” before we’ve even given it a shot.

Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, going for the role you’re not sure you’re ready for, or starting something entirely out of left field, so many of us hold back out of fear, uncertainty, or simply the comfort of routine.

But here’s the thing: stepping out of your comfort zone doesn’t always have to start with something big. Sometimes, the easiest way to stretch is by doing it in the mirror. That’s why I think fashion is the perfect place to begin.

I often tell my clients: Even something as simple as getting dressed up just because can feel like a small act of boldness. You might not have a dinner to go to or a meeting to impress at—but what’s the worst that can happen? Someone compliments your outfit? Personally, I’m okay with that.

Because it’s not about changing who you are. It’s about trying something new—and seeing what happens.

This week, I wanted to share a few of the most common style hesitations we hear as stylists and offer a gentle nudge to explore what might be on the other side.

1. Try new colours

We all have our colour comfort zone—those pieces we reach for again and again. But what if something completely unexpected actually lights you up? I’m talking about the green that makes your eyes sparkle, or the warm coral that suddenly gives your whole face a glow.

Here’s the thing: our stylists are trained in colour theory (yes, it’s a real science!) and they’re so good at helping you figure out what colours not only suit you—but make you feel your best. You might know you look great in blue, but how you wear it makes all the difference.

I’m not saying you have to abandon your favourites—I’m just suggesting… try one new shade you may have thought wasn't for you. You never know what you’ll discover.

→ Come see us: Step out of your neutrals and see what suits you (we’ll help).

2. Wear the styles you think you can’t anymore

We hear this one all the time: “I used to wear that, but I can’t now.” And more often than not, it’s not really about the piece—it’s about comfort, confidence, and how we feel in our bodies today. Maybe you feel less at ease showing your arms, your legs, or another part of yourself that once felt effortless.

But here’s the thing: just because you wouldn’t wear something the same way you did in your twenties, doesn’t mean you can’t wear it at all. Could a mini skirt still work? Absolutely—just styled for the woman you are now. Think: a higher boot, a sheer tight, and a beautifully tailored jacket layered on top. Suddenly, that skirt that’s been waiting in your closet for years? It’s ready for a comeback.

Your style should evolve with you—not leave you behind. A new chapter doesn’t mean letting go of what you once loved. It just means wearing it your way, now.

→ Book a Closet Edit: Try something old in a new way (and get $100 in-store credit).

3. Accessorizing—yes, really

Some of us like to keep it simple. But hear me out: accessories are often the piece that makes an outfit yours. They’re not about flash—they’re about finishing.

Sure, someone else has that top… but do they have your belt, scarf, shoes, and earrings? Doubt it. It’s about putting your stamp on something and saying, this feels like me.

And the best part? They’re low risk. Try something bold. If it’s not for you, no big deal. But more often than not, that scarf, that pair of earrings, that belt you almost didn’t buy? It ends up being the piece that reinvents everything else you own.

→ Shop Accessories: Start small. A statement piece might be your new signature.

So this week, I dare you: try one thing that feels just a little out of your comfort zone. Just one.

If it’s not for you, no harm done. But if it is? You’re welcome.

Same time next week?

xoxo,
Lisa